You can't manifest your deserving person if you continue your relationship as "friends with benefits" with your Ex after breakup.
A breakup is a reflection of the act of cheating or lying or misunderstanding or an abusive act in a marriage or love relationship. Whenever you experience a breakup in your relationship life then you just need to understand that your relationship is completely over for that particular time period. Actually, a breakup is the situation where both partners are unable to love or respect each other or accept each other for that particular time period. You can't get back your Ex by pleading, crying or begging after experiencing a breakup. You need some time and space to heal your wounded self and to get back your self-identity rather than running after your Ex. If you continue your relationship with your Ex as friends with benefits after a breakup then you can't be able to heal your wounded self nor you can manifest your deserving person. When you engage in such kind of relationship after breakup then you will have mixed feelings which is far more destructive for your personal well-being.
When you experience a breakup then your logical and intuitive intelligence get hijacked by the storms of emotions. You need to be consciously aware regarding fixing your emotional storms wisely rather than comforting yourself temporarily by being in friends with benefits type of casual relationship with your Ex. Suppose, if you have kids together then you can co-parent your kids together with certain limitations or boundaries instead of being intimate casually. if you have to meet with your Ex because of your kids then you must lower the number of encounter or meetings with your Ex. It doesn't matter whether you work together or stay in the same apartment, you just need to focus on your healing process by detaching yourself completely from your Ex in every way possible. When you get occupied by your Ex being in friends with benefits type of relationship then it can create a huge blockage in the manifestation process of your deserving person. Most of the people continue their relationship as friends with benefits for bridging an emotional gap, financial insecurities, fear of what people gonna say or fear of being single which is far more destructive.
When you look for bridging your emotional gap by being in friends with benefits relationship with your Ex then you will become an option and you will be used, or misused sooner or later. You will be attracting more complex circumstances or issues once you apply a casual approach to master over your emotional storms. When you run after your Ex with such casual approach then you can't manifest your deserving person as per the law of attraction. When your Ex approach you for friends with benefits kind of relationship then you have to understand the fact that such casual relationship can comfort you for a certain time period but not for the lifetime. Your Ex might have engaged in a casual relationship with others too and you might not be unaware of the story behind the screen. Your Ex might pretend to love you for physical pleasure and spending quality time with you. It will be your mature and wise decision to heal your wounded self and discover your self-identity by detaching yourself from your Ex after a breakup. Your casual relationship will work till the benefits are available and once the benefits stops then the casual relationship also get over.
When you become the best version of yourself then you will be able to raise your positive vibes to manifest your deserving person for a committed relationship. You have to focus on your personal well being and prioritizing your own priorities for healing your wounded self faster. There are certain techniques to heal your wounded self and discover your self-identity which can make you so magnetic to attract your deserving person into your physical experience. If you keep making yourself available as an option for your Ex then you will be in a worse situation where you can't even trust the words like Love or relationships anymore. The major priority after experiencing a breakup should be to heal your wounded self and discover your self-identity which is the root foundation for attracting your deserving person whether that person might be your Ex or someone whom you deserve. You can't manifest your deserving person who can reflect your soul if you apply a casual approach to fix your relationship issues.
You must refer a professional relationship counselor to expand your awareness regarding dealing with your breakup issues instantly. Besides this, you can practice, positive affirmations techniques, visualizations techniques, meditation technique and the nature alignment method to heal your wounded self faster after experiencing a breakup. When you practice the law of attraction being disciplined then you can manifest your destined version of relationship life sooner or later. So never choose a casual approach to fix your breakup issues and always follow your intuitive intelligence before you get into friends with benefits type of relationship. Finally the bottom-line is "Casual relationship can give you a bed pleasure but not a lifetime pleasure".
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