The real marriage or love relationship is a two way spiritual alignment between two blessed souls where both souls are equally responsible to maintain a happy and vibrant relationship. Whenever you experience arguments or any conflicting issues in your relationship then don't leave your partner instantly rather work on your relationship wisely to fix it being together. Majority of the people are leaving their relationship too early and they are experiencing same issues and same consequences in their new relationship too. It will be your wise and mature decision to work on your relationship being together with a professional counselor for fixing your relationship.
There should be a mutual effort for a relationship to work rather than fighting for who is right. Actually, most of the couples are fighting for who is right, instead of working on what is right for their relationship life which is the major cause of breakup or divorce. When you experience an emotional hurt and if your partner ignores you, disrespect you as well as makes you feel worthless then start to love, respect and appreciate yourself more rather than leaving your partner. Once you start to treat yourself with more love, respect and attention then you gonna treat your someone alike but if they still ignores you and feel proud of their actions then that is their real identity. You are the most precious person of your life and you need to be responsible of your own feelings, desires and you should not expect to meet all your expectations from your someone.
Your partner can't complete you and meet all of your desires or expectations rather you should be responsible of your own. Be responsible for loving yourself, raising your self worth, discovering your self-identity and making yourself happy. You must give your best possible effort on your relationship to work till your intuition approves you to work on it. Once you start to experience a physical abuse, beside an emotional abuse then it's a perfect time to leave your relationship. The main reason behind having a patience and applying self loving technique is that you won't be feeling regret for leaving a person who has no problem with their actions and you won't be experiencing same issues in your new relationship.
Never allow your ego, anger and negative self to lead over you during the healing process of your relationship. if possible apply meditation to master over your ego, anger, mental stress and to connect with your spiritual self. So loving yourself is the key when you are experiencing an abusive or toxic relationship because once you have strong bond of relationship with your own self then you can make a wise and mature decisions in your life.
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Dhiraj Kumar Raj