Watering A Dead Relationship For So Long Can Damage You Personally, Emotionally, Professionally And Spiritually.
Marriage or love relationship is a very confidential matter of concern which requires a higher level of emotional, intellectual and intuitive intelligence to experience a vibrant relationship. Actually, a sound and vibrant relationship can help you to grow personally, professionally, emotionally, intellectually and spiritually. But a toxic or abusive relationship can poison your life in a very destructive way. Both partners are equally responsible to work on their relationship for the lifetime. There should be a mutual effort rather than an individual effort for a relationship to work. You need to know about the well being of your relationship life so that you can work together to fix every issues in the light of love and mutual understanding.
When you keep watering your dead relationship with all your attention, affection, respect and love being loyal for so long then you will probably lose your own self-worth and self-identity sooner or later. If you keep your emotional pain within yourself and tried your best to keep your someone happy then it might damage you personally, professionally, emotionally and spiritually. You must love yourself too while loving your someone because your personal well being and emotional well-being matter a lot. You can only give love, attention and affection once you own it first. You can't give others without having it first and if you keep giving without owning yourself then you will be a person without any self identity sooner or later.
In fact, you must be consciously aware while dealing with such an abusive, toxic, liar or cheater who is not serious about their own actions. You can’t force a person to love you, accept you and respect you, the way you treat them because it's beyond your control. You must work with a professional relationship counselor when you are not stressed emotionally and physically. Your personal well being, emotional well being and positive state of mind are the solid foundations for making a confidential decision of your relationship life. Nobody else gonna take action for fixing your relationship issues rather you have to take action to fix it.
You must write about the positive qualities and negative qualities of that person on a piece of paper to get their real picture. Whenever you write the qualities of that person and the real situation of your relationship life then it can give a positive insight for taking a wise decision. Besides this effort, if your someone keeps treating you the same frequently and if they do not regret about their actions then follow your intuition to make a wise decision. If your partner keeps cheating on you, abusing you or treating you like an option and ignores you despite of your persistent effort then let them go being grateful. Never feel regret for your wise decisions rather feel yourself grateful for learning a valuable lesson from that painful experience.
It will be your wise decision to let them go respectfully instead of arguing and fighting for who is right. Every painful experience is to grow and enrich your soul. So letting go and focusing on your personal well being can help you to heal your wounded self faster. Once you heal yourself from within then you can attract your deserving person sooner or later. There is always someone in the Universe who is waiting for you for a committed relationship. The valid truth says "Sometimes the love of your life comes after the mistake of your life".
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