Every experience is a learning experience and it propels us to the highway of happiness and prosperity once we apply the lessons learned from those experiences. When it comes to love, nobody is perfect and no one can be perfect while manifesting the love of their life. We never commit mistakes intentionally while choosing a love of our life. We only know our mistakes when we are shattered into million pieces after experiencing a devastating breakup. When we are in a relationship with someone we start to believe that our relationship life will always be like a honeymoon phase. We started to ignore the red flags seen in a relationship because we get blinded by our desperate love.
Sometimes we fall in love with a person to bridge our emotional gap created by our past relationship experiences which cost us a huge price sooner or later. Sometimes we lack the right level of awareness regarding the purpose of the relationship and we are in a relationship with a person who is not a reflection of our soul. When we are in a desperate love with someone we never give more attention to the red flags seen during the early phase of our relationship. When we are brutally hurt by someone then we start to realize that those red flags were the sign for letting go of that person but we waited for so long till that person damaged us in a very destructive way.
Every negative experience in our relationship life is to shake us and to awake us for choosing our deserving person who can reflect our soul. We should learn valuable lessons from those negative relationship experiences and move on with a new level of awareness. The majority of the people live their life with regrets of their past mistakes and start to believe that there is no deserving person for them in this Universe. We are a conscious spiritual being in a human experience and we have an ability to alter our life at any stormy phases we experience. We just need to let go of our past mistakes and heal our wounded self to get back our self-identity then we can be in a situation to manifest our soulmate. It will be our wise and mature decision to refer a professional relationship counselor to master over an emotional disaster.
When we experience breakup then we feel like life is over but we need to understand the fact that every negative experience is a part of our life, not the end of it. We have to heal our wounded self to discover our self-identity through certain spiritual techniques which can light the spark of hope and positive beliefs about love in our awareness. Actually, healing is not an overnight process rather it requires time, effort, willpower, right level of awareness and disciplined actions. We have to focus on our personal well being and happiness during the healing process. We should not jump into a new relationship instantly after experiencing a breakup rather we have to focus on the healing process only. The majority of the people punish themselves for their mistakes which is completely immature way to deal with their emotional storms.
We have to pierce the darkest clouds of our emotional storms during the healing phase but once we get healed emotionally then we can become a whole again. We need to understand the Universal truth which is "whatever happens, it happens for a purpose and to expand our awareness". There is always someone in the Universe who is Divinely meant to be our soulmate and we can manifest that specific person by healing our wounded self. We can't go back and fix our past relationship but we can learn valuable lessons from our past relationship experience to discover our destined version of a relationship. when we experience toxic, abusive or any hurtful relationship then it helps us to acquaint with our real version of ourselves.
We feel grateful for our past relationship experience once we manifest our soulmate after healing our wounded self. We can realize that why our past relationship didn't work despite our persistent effort once we manifest the love of our life. In fact, relationship life is a progressive journey where we need to learn and grow instead of living with our past mistakes or memories of breakup experience. So our mistakes are like a mirror which helps us to acquaint and manifest the love of our life who exists in this Universe.
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*Heal your wounded self after a breakup and discover your self-identity.
Dhiraj Kumar Raj