Never fall in love when you are lonely rather fall in love when you are mentally and emotionally ready.
We are a love-seeking conscious spiritual being in a human experience and love is the greatest source of positive energy that exists on this planet which makes the living existence possible. The real love is a spiritual alignment between two blessed souls who are divinely sent and meant to be together. Whenever you experience any breakup or divorce or hurtful experience then you need to take some time and space to heal your wounded self rather than working on your new relationship instantly. The majority of the people jump into their new relationship instantly after experiencing a breakup or divorce to bridge their emotional gap of loneliness. It is a completely an immature decision and an emotional disaster to get into a new relationship instantly instead of healing your wounded self.
You must be mature and wise enough to deal with the storms of emotions which can destroy you mentally, physically and emotionally if you are unable to handle it wisely. If you experience love feelings towards any person during the situation of emptiness or loneliness then it's not a true love. when you are emotionally hurt due to your negative past experiences and if you force yourself to be in a new relationship then such relationship won't last long. You will attract only emotional vampires to take advantage of your loneliness or emptiness if you prioritize to be in a new relationship without healing yourself first. You need to be a complete person by working on your emotional issues and you need to be a person of love to attract real love.
Never run after someone immediately to fill the gap of loneliness or due to the fear of being alone after experiencing any hurtful experience. You must take a help from a professional relationship coach to work on your emotional issues who can help to heal your wounded self faster. Your beliefs regarding yourself will help you to understand a person wisely and to experience a real love as well. Whenever you are consciously aware of the inner beauty of your own soul and your own self-identity then you can understand such qualities of another person wisely. You just need some time and space to work on your emotional storms to raise your positive vibes. When you start to love, accept and appreciate yourself for who you are then you can master over your loneliness faster.
Whenever you have a positive harmony among your thought, emotion and action then you can be in a situation to work on your new relationship. If you force yourself to be in a new relationship instantly after experiencing breakup or divorce then you will attract a person who can take advantage of your loneliness and emptiness. You must be the person you desire to attract into your physical experience. If you work on your new relationship instantly without fixing your own emotional issues then you will attract the same person and the same consequences in your new relationship too sooner or later. When you start to enjoy your own company after healing your wounded self then you can be a living magnet to attract a person who can reflect your soul.
Whatever you focus on or give attention to will be reflected back into your physical experience as per the law of attraction. So heal your wounded self and get back your self-identity first then you can be so magnetic to attract your deserving person sooner or later.
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When you go through this book, you will learn how to:
*Attract a specific person whom you don’t know yet.
*Attract a specific person whom you know personally or indirectly.
*Heal your wounded self after a breakup and discover your self-identity.
Dhiraj Kumar Raj