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How to use the law of attraction for manifesting your ideal partner or soulmate in 15 action steps?----(Highly read article on LOA)

7/4/2019

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You might have an intense burning desire to find the right working mechanism of the law of attraction which can help to manifest your ideal partner or soulmate. You might have been surfing the internet and watching countless videos to identify an action-oriented approach to practice the law of attraction but the majority of books, articles or videos talk in a very general way. You might have so much confusion regarding an authentic approach of the law of attraction for manifesting your ideal partner since you have been referring countless materials on this topic.

I have published a book "Attracting A Specific Person" and have written numerous articles on LOA. I have some clear and deeper understanding regarding the working mechanism of the law of attraction for manifesting your ideal partner or soulmate. I strongly believe in the action-oriented approach because the last 6 letters of "ATTRACTION" itself says "ACTION". You will definitely manifest your ideal partner or soulmate once you practice this action-oriented approach being committed and disciplined during the manifestation process. 

The law of attraction is not the law of magic rather it is an action-based law where your thought, emotion, decision, and action should be in a positive harmony during the manifestation process. The law of attraction governs everyone’s life, and it is functioning 24/7 whether you realize it or not. Your thoughts and emotions are the highest forms of energy that create your quality of life. You are shaping your quality of life by practicing the powerful law knowingly or unknowingly on a daily basis.

In fact, everything is energy and like attracts like as per the law of attraction. You are a living magnet and can alter your quality of life by accessing your thoughts, emotions and actions in a positive manner. Your outer experience is simply a reflection of your own thoughts, emotions, and actions. The universe is always responding to your thought vibration without any rectification of the vibes you emit toward it. 

Actually, you are capable of altering your quality of life in any area by applying this powerful law, whether it’s personal, professional, relationship, health, spiritual, financial or many more. The law of attraction is the best solution for attracting your specific person, and you must believe in yourself to manifest your dream ideal person. Clear intent and persistent action can help you to manifest that specific person into your life even if you are unaware of that specific person yet.

It doesn’t matter whether you have been waiting for several years or you have experienced a series of breakups or divorce—all that matters is having a strong, clear intent to attract your specific person. There is always a specific person in the universe who is looking for a person exactly like you for a committed relationship.

You just need to have self-diagnosis of your mental and emotional well being first before you desire to work on your manifestation process. Once you are mentally and emotionally prepared then you need to go through a series of action-oriented approach to manifest your ideal partner. The universe intelligence will give your specific person once you take action on your relationship goals, being disciplined and trusting the manifestation process. It’s all about being a person who deserves to attract a specific person as per the law of attraction.

You must practice every step, being honest and disciplined, to experience a huge positive shift in your relationship life. These are 15 action steps that should be followed during the manifestation process to attract your ideal partner or soulmate:

1. Have a self-diagnosis of your mental and emotional state of well being first.
You need to have a self-diagnosis of your mental and emotional well being so that you can know whether you are mentally and emotionally ready for working on your new relationship or not. Once you find yourself mentally and emotionally occupied by your past relationship issues then fix your internal issues first. When you get mentally and emotionally occupied by your past emotional baggage caused by the emotionally devastating breakup, divorce, betrayal or hurt then you can't experience a destined version of committed relationship life.

​You have to rescue yourself and let go of your past emotional baggage rather than living yourself in your mental prison. You can't manifest your ideal partner or soulmate if you live your life with your past emotional baggage rather you will attract more emotional disaster in your life if you allow yourself to get controlled by it.


You are the responsible person to rescue yourself from your mental prison which can poison the key areas of your life in a devastating way. When you live with the same pattern of your thoughts, emotions, and actions on a daily basis then you will attract alike without any rectification of it as per the law of attraction.

You are taking out your past emotional baggage from your memory bank and immersing in it emotionally on a daily basis which is controlling your life and forming the negative patterns of your thoughts, emotions, decisions, and actions. The majority of people are living their life with regrets, shame, fear and emotional scars of their past relationship which is creating a huge blockage for manifesting a destined version of their life partner or life as a whole.

You need to understand the life-altering fact which says "experiencing an emotional disaster in your past relationship is a part of your life, not the end of it".Your quality of relationship life or life as a whole is not determined by your past emotional baggage rather it is determined by the quality of your thoughts, emotions, decisions, and actions you experience in your present moment.

It doesn't matter whether you had a series of a breakup, betrayals, divorce or emotionally devastating experiences in your past relationships, you are divinely designed infinite being who has an ability to grow and shine through the darkness. Your past relationship baggage is simply like the shadow of your own shadow which will lose its power when you become a shining star by healing your wounded self and discovering the best version of yourself.

Actually, letting go is simply an inner work where you need to harmonize your thoughts, emotions, and actions through spiritual and the law of attraction techniques. You are divinely equipped with an infinite source of healing energy that exists within you and you can let go of your past relationship baggage with ease and move on peacefully once you utilize your divine gifts.

You might be subconsciously conditioned with the negative patterns of your thoughts, emotions, decisions, and actions which requires some right level of awareness and disciplined actions to alter them in a positive manner. You might feel confused, stuck, lonely and lost in your life because the negative pattern of your life forms a negative belief system that controls your thought, emotion, decision, and action completely. You can refer to this article if you are mentally and emotionally occupied by your past emotional baggage 17 effective ways to let go of your past relationship baggage and move on.

2. Be specific about the traits of your ideal specific person and relationship. 
The universe is a vast creation that works on a frequency level, and you are a living magnet in human experience. When you have the clarity regarding what you truly desire to manifest, the universe will respond to you alike without any rectification of it. You must write down on a piece of paper about the qualities or traits you would like to see in your ideal partner and the specific kind of relationship you desire to manifest.

There is always someone in the universe who is meant to be yours, and you just need to ask the universe intelligence for it with a strong self-belief. Clarity gives your dream desires more positive power to attract them into your physical reality despite countless setbacks during the manifestation process.

Never limit yourself while expressing your relationship goals and feel like the universe is asking you to script your desires list. Never allow your negative self or fear to stop you from expressing your relationship goals; rather, ignore it and express yourself. If you desire to attract a person who is loyal, honest, loving, caring, financially stable and has a high level of understanding, write it down without any hesitation.

You need to write the traits or qualities which can't be tolerated or compromised in your relationship life rather than writing the traits at a very micro level. You must be very specific regarding the kind of relationship you desire to attract—just be specific. Your clarity combined with focus and disciplined action can help you to attract your deserving person who can love you for who you are.

There will be no manifestation of your ideal partner and vibrant relationship if you lack clarity about that specific person and the kind of relationship you desire to experience. Your emotional intelligence and intuitive intelligence will guide you in a positive manner once you have a positive harmony in your head, hand and daily action. Clarity gives you more focus and positive strength to attract your specific dream ideal person who is not in your awareness yet. There are more than seven billion people on this planet, and your deserving person is looking for you, too. 

3. Create a vision board that must be relevant to your relationship goals.
The vision board is a physical representation of your relationship goal which you strongly desire to experience into your physical experience. You can mentally and emotionally remain focused on your relationship goal because of your vision board during the manifestation process. In fact, the vision board is the most powerful technique to program your subconscious mind through images, positive words and positive statements that are relevant to your relationship goal.

This technique helps to connect with the Universe intelligence and it is the reflection of what you truly desire to manifest in your ideal partner and in your specific kind of relationship. You can manifest your dream ideal partner much faster if you practice the law of attraction by using the vision board technique being disciplined.

Action Steps To Create A Vision Board.?
You can use chart papers, relevant pictures, and a photo frame to create your vision board. You have to include a picture of a couple’s hands with their wedding rings on it, but don’t include a picture of a couple with their faces or whole bodies since you don't know your specific ideal person yet but that person exists in the Universe. You can buy a wedding anniversary card or a birthday card to put on your vision board in an envelope.

You can put the picture of the country or any specific place you would like to go for your honeymoon. (In another case scenario, suppose if you are aware of your specific person and if you desire to manifest that person into your physical experience then you can put their picture and your picture together with a wedding ring on it (buy 1$ ring).) 

You must write positive statements relevant to your relationship goals for your vision board in the present tense. You have to write all the traits or qualities you desire to experience in your ideal person and the ideal type of your relationship being honest. Every positive statement should be very specific, compelling and relevant to your relationship goal.

Never use any negative words or statements like “I can’t” or “I don’t”; rather, use only positive words because your subconscious mind never differentiates between positive and negative. Most people are attracting more negative people in their lives because they use affirmative statements like “I don’t desire to attract an abusive person” and “I don’t want to attract an alcoholic person.” 

Your subconscious mind accepts your command as per your instructions whether you command it through positive or negative affirmative statements or through relevant or irrelevant images. Once you are done creating your vision board, you must put your vision board in a visible location where you can see it most of the time (bedroom or side of your big mirror). You can snap a picture of your vision board so that you can keep it in your cell phone or laptop.

You can print it out for keeping it in your wallet or purse. You can also stick your printed vision board on your refrigerator or any wall of your house or apartment where you can see it most of the time. When you have a strong intent to manifest your relationship goals, you must keep yourself on track, which is done by your vision board technique.

Note: You can gather posters or images relevant to your specific relationship goals from magazines, or you can Google them and print them out in very bold versions. 

4. Imprint your vision board subconsciously through visualization and positive affirmations.
Once you create your specific vision board for manifesting your ideal partner then you need to practice it in your actions, being disciplined. The visualization and positive affirmation techniques are the best technique to program your subconscious mind. Once you program your subconscious mind through visualization and positive affirmation techniques then your subconscious mind will connect with the Universe intelligence for manifesting your ideal partner or soulmate into your physical experience.

Visualization technique:-
The visualization is a miracle creating technique to utilize the power of your imagination to manifest your relationship goals into your physical experience. When you see your specific person with your mind’s eye and visualize being in a committed relationship in a manifested form, it can make you more magnetic to gravitate that specific person into your vortex. You must visualize like you are already living a vibrant relationship life together, going shopping together, going on vacations together and sleeping together romantically.

You just need to experience your dream relationship life in a manifested form in advance in your mental movie repeatedly and vividly. You must practice the "fake it till you manifest it into your physical experience" principle then you can manifest your specific person sooner or later.

You can practice visualization by being alone in a quiet location on a regular basis for at least three to five times a day. You can practice visualization with open eyes and by being in a meditative state too. The more powerful way to visualize your relationship goal is through a meditative state which can help to access your soul energy and connect with the Universe intelligence.

The best times would be when you wake up in the morning and before you go to sleep at night. You can also visualize two or three times more whenever you feel positive about manifesting your specific person. The more repeatedly and vividly you visualize your relationship goal by internalizing it emotionally, the faster you can actualize it in your physical experience. 

Positive Affirmation technique:-
Positive affirmations help to convince your subconscious mind regarding your strong dream desires in a positive manner. Never allow your negative self-limiting beliefs or your negative self to distract you; rather, ignore them while practicing positive affirmations. You can gain mastery over your self-limiting beliefs if you keep practicing positive affirmations with strong conviction and confidence and internalize it emotionally. It can also help to raise your self-worth, self-confidence and your perception regarding yourself will change in a positive manner.

You can use a mirror technique or you can practice by being in a quiet location for at least three to five times a day. The best time for practicing positive affirmations would be before you sleep at night and when you wake up in the morning. You can also practice it three times more during the day whenever you feel free and focused on your relationship goals.

Examples of positive statements for practicing visualization & positive affirmation technique. 
“I love myself for who I am unconditionally and I have a magnetic personality.”
“I am in a happy and vibrant committed relationship.”
‘I love my husband/wife for who he/she is unconditionally being grateful.”
“Our committed relationship is filled with loyalty, trust, love, mutual understanding, mutual respect, sound communication, and strong faith.”
“We are very cooperative and supportive of each other.”
“We respect each other’s differences and we have a strong bond of soul connection.”
“We accept each other, love each other and appreciate each other, being grateful.”

If your negative self-limiting beliefs start to create an inner dialogue then ignore them and feel every word and statement like a real. Just be focused, emotionalize every word and statement to program your subconscious mind. Once you practice both visualization and positive affirmation techniques on a daily basis, being very disciplined, then you can be in a higher state of positive vibration. Your subconscious mind is like a magnetic field that can help you to connect with the universe intelligence for attracting your specific ideal person to your vortex. 

You can create an audio version of your vision board too so that you can hear it while driving as well (listen to it at a low volume). Since you don’t know your specific person yet, you can create an audio version of a vision board in this way. You can record your spoken statements as given below.

Suppose your name is (“Marilyn/Rick-------Female/Male") 
“Marilyn/Rick, your husband/wife is a very loyal, honest, trustful and loves you for who you are unconditionally.”
“Marilyn/Rick, your husband/wife cares about you and prioritizes you as the most precious person in his/her life.”
“Marilyn/Rick, your husband/wife is lying closer next to you.”

This vision board technique is a very action-oriented approach which can be very effective while practicing the law of attraction for manifesting your ideal partner into your physical experience. A vision board technique is the part of your manifestation process and there is a more action-oriented approach which is the root of the law of attraction for manifesting your specific ideal partner.

5. Love, accept and appreciate yourself for who you are and be grateful. 
The law of attraction works for attracting a specific person once you become a person you desire to manifest into your physical reality. Once you desire to manifest a person of love, respect, appreciation, loyalty, trust, and understanding, then own those qualities first. Never criticize, humiliate or hurt yourself; rather, treat yourself like the most precious person in your life—then you can send the positive vibes to the Universe intelligence to attract alike. When you treat yourself with love, respect, and appreciation, you can be filled with more positive energy.

When you treat yourself in a positive way, being your authentic self and grateful, you can attract your specific person faster. Your personal well-being does matter in raising your higher level of positive vibes. Be grateful for all the qualities or traits you have, then you can be more magnetic as per the law of attraction. The law of attraction is not about rectifying your thought vibes. Whether you radiate positive or negative vibes, the universe always responds alike to your vibes. You must radiate the positive vibes to attract a specific person with similar vibes.

6. Meditate, go for a walk, do exercises and do what makes you happy every day. 
Meditation is the best spiritual technique for gaining mastery over your distractive negative thoughts and negative memories. It releases negative energy and helps you to connect with your spiritual self, which is your real self. In fact, this spiritual practice brings benefits that provide positive energy for attracting your deserving specific person into your life.

Once you finish meditation in the morning, you can go for a morning walk in places like a park, a beach, and naturally blessed locations, which can help you to maximize your positive energy. You can do a physical exercise like going to the gym or doing yoga for your quality health transformation. 

Your physical shape and appearance will transform dramatically and you will feel more confident when you engage in physical activities. The law of attraction says you attract your specific person by becoming an attractive human being. So be the person you want to attract in every way possible during the manifestation process. You must do what makes you happy most of the time, which can help you to radiate positive vibes to the universe intelligence for attracting more happiness into your life.

Your personal well-being and state of happiness can make you a living magnetic to attract your specific deserving partner into your physical experience. Happiness is the source of a huge amount of positive energy, and you must be happy all the time during the manifestation phase.

7. Focus on positive growth-based activities in all areas of your life. 
You can attract your ideal partner or soulmate once you become a person with strong positive vibes. You can raise your self-esteem, self-worth, and self-confidence and discover your self-identity once you engage in positive development-based activities. You have to be the best version of yourself to attract your specific ideal partner faster into your physical reality.

When you get engaged with positive growth-based activities, it can help you to radiate a higher level of positive vibration. The reason that most people are unable to manifest their specific person is that they desire to attract a highly professional, loving, honest, healthy, religious belief or spiritual and financially stable person without being one first. You can refer positive, motivational or spiritual books for your positive mental nutrition which can help to manufacture more positive thoughts and positive vibes.

You can take any academic or training courses you like, or you can join a gym for your health transformation. You must do what makes you feel happy and be focused on your positive life transformation. If you are a religious person, then you can attend church, temple, mosque, hof, monastery, etc. as per your religious beliefs and faith. The law of attraction is all about being the person you desire to attract.

Your mind will be occupied with more positive thoughts, ideas and creativity once you engage yourself in positive growth-based activities that can help you to radiate more positive vibes. Once you have positive harmony among your personal, professional, health and spiritual life, you can be more magnetic and attract your specific person faster. 

8. Express gratitude every day, making a gratitude list. 
The attitude of gratitude can help you to connect with the universe intelligence and attract more of what you radiate. When you express your gratitude regarding who you are, what you have and what you do every day with a positive mindset, you can be a living magnet. If you desire to attract positive circumstances, positive things and positive people into your life, never allow negative thoughts to occupy your mind.

It would be perfect if you made a gratitude list every night before you go to sleep. The universe intelligence will respond to your positive vibes without any rectification of it. This grateful attitude will help you to become more positive about life and you can manifest your specific ideal person faster. 

9. Associate with only like-minded, positive people. 
When you work to manifest your ideal partner or soulmate, surround yourself with only positive, like-minded people. Never allow any negative people to poison your life; rather, detach yourself from such negative, toxic people instantly. Negative people hold a huge amount of negative energy and they can create a huge blockage during your manifestation process.

Be consciously aware during the manifestation process and associate with only positive people who can make you feel more positive. Positive people are the ones who want to see you happy and will encourage you to become the best version of yourself. Being with positive people can help you to be more creative, positive and dream goal-oriented. You are the responsible person for allowing the quality of people to enter into your life. You have to be professional rather emotional during the manifestation process

10. Launch yourself among the pool of people being open and receptive to the Universe intelligence. 
These are the miracle-creating action steps for attracting your specific ideal person whom you don’t know yet into your physical experience faster. The law of attraction is not the law of magic; rather, it is the law of action and just an action where you should be very action-oriented. The term attraction includes the word action, which means you need to take action to attract your specific person.

You can’t manifest your specific person faster if you keep staying at home behind a closed door with a closed mindset. You need to expose yourself to the universe, being open and receptive during the manifestation process. When you expose yourself to the external world, you can create huge opportunities to acquaint with your dream ideal partner faster.

Most people expect their specific person to knock on their door and ask, “Will you marry me?” which doesn’t work in real life, according to the law of attraction. You must be open and receptive, being with a pool of people who have similar positive vibes. You may encounter countless people during the manifestation process, but you have to follow your emotional intelligence and intuitive intelligence to identify your specific person. There are a few action steps that will help to encounter with your specific person sooner or later.

a. Engage in social gatherings. 
You can invite your friends and relatives to attend your birthday celebration. You must wear your favorite eye-catching dress and your favorite perfume while hosting or attending such social gatherings. Don’t force yourself to interact with everyone you see at such social gatherings, being desperate; rather, follow your intuition and talk with the people whom you feel connected with vibrationally.

There is always someone in such gatherings who can cause a reaction inside you with their positive vibrational energy. You must attend your friends’ or relatives’ or anyone’s wedding parties or any celebration party, being open and receptive.

You must be in an attractive getup but not a revealing one. You must wear your favorite dress or suit and feel confident about yourself for who you are. You must smile with confidence, which can help you to radiate positive vibes. Greet others whom you find positive, being humble and polite. The positive spark of your traits can be reflected through the positive vibes you emit.

Be consciously aware while interacting with the people you meet at such gatherings, and don’t be desperate when you find someone who is attractive or is interested in you. Your deserving person can appear in any situation and at any place.

Your intuition is the best spiritual guide to choose a positive person to engage in a friendly conversation during such social gatherings. You can encounter countless people who have similar positive vibes when you attend any seminar or live concert or dance party or any event you like. When you participate in such live events, you must be very open and receptive.

The universe is monitoring your thought vibes all the time and you must be aware of it. There is always someone in such gatherings with whom you can feel connected vibrationally. Once you feel connected with a specific person in such social gatherings, you can talk in a friendly way and get to know each other.

b. Take relevant courses for your personal and professional growth. 
When you take relevant courses as per your dream goals, you can create a huge opportunity to interact with countless people who have similar dream goals and positive vibes. You must interact with the people with whom you feel intuitively connected and feel their positive vibes.

Your right person can find you at such places, too, and you need to be very open and receptive. You just need to keep in mind that your deserving specific person can be encountered at any time and in any place. This technique will help you to experience positive growth, too.

c. Make new friends. 
When you start to make new friends who have similar positive vibes who can reflect your soul, you can encounter your specific ideal partner faster. When you approach any person politely, humbly and confidently, you can make good friends during the manifestation process. This technique will help to create a huge opportunity to encounter with your specific dream partner, and you need to read them through the vibes they emit.

d. Be active on social media. 
You can meet countless people through social media such as Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and dating sites. You can meet people from all around the world, but you need to be consciously aware while interacting with them online. You need to utilize your logical intelligence, emotional intelligence, and intuitive intelligence while interacting with them. You can encounter people from your own country or beyond your physical boundaries. The universe is working 24/7, and you might get acquainted with your dream ideal person beyond the physical boundaries, too.

Actually, the majority of people have manifested their dream ideal partner by using social media too. You must take some time to trust people whom you meet online and act like a mature person while interacting with others whom you feel connected with. At the same time, you must choose to associate with only like-minded positive people rather than associating with countless random people.
You need to focus on quality over quantity while associating with new people online. This technique will help you to manifest your specific ideal person once you are consciously aware of your specific relationship goals.

e. Greet people.
Greet friends, relatives or anyone whom you encounter by being positive, smiley and confident on a daily basis. When you encounter your colleagues or friends or strangers in person or online, greet them and ask them about their personal well-being. This greeting attitude will help you to radiate positive vibes and reflect your authentic self. In fact, you might encounter your specific ideal partner through such interactions, too, because everyone loves a positive, smiley, kind, loving and confident person.

The people whom you greet may show some interest in you sooner or later, but you must follow your intuition before you interact with them in a very descriptive manner. Actually, a friendly talk would be enough in the beginning phase because a friendly talk will lead you to more engaging talk later. The attitude of loving, caring and showing your compassion to others can make you an attractive person. You just need to keep in mind that you can attract your specific ideal person to your vortex by being yourself an attractive person.

11. Internalize and emotionalize your relationship goals, being focused. 
Your thought, emotion, and action should be in positive harmony while you practice the law of attraction for manifesting your specific ideal partner. Never allow your negative past experiences or negative thoughts to have mastery over you; rather, you must have mastery over them to radiate positive vibes. The law of attraction will never rectify your thought vibes, and you have to be in a positive state of mind to radiate positive vibes of your dream desires.

When you internalize and emotionalize your dream desires from deep within, you can be magnetic enough to attract your ideal partner or soulmate. Never get hijacked by your negative self-limiting beliefs during the manifestation process. You just need to plant the feeling of deservingness to raise your higher level of positive frequency.

12. Practice ‘Fake it till you make it believing that you can manifest it into your physical reality’ technique. 
Whatever you desire to manifest into your physical experience can be manifested faster once you feel like you have already manifested it into your physical experience in advance as per the law of attraction. You need to feel like you are already living in a happy and vibrant relationship life together. When you feel like you have already manifested your specific dream ideal partner, the universe intelligence will respond to the vibe of your desires faster. You need to believe in yourself and trust in the manifestation process to attract your specific ideal person faster into your physical reality.

Never allow your negative self to lead you; rather, lead it by using this powerful technique called “fake it till you make it believing that you can manifest it into your physical reality.” You need to express your imaginary relationship through your emotions and actions in a positive way in your day-to-day life. This technique will shift your positive vibrational energy to a higher level, which can help to attract your specific ideal person faster into your physical experience.

Action steps with examples:
Leave a space for your partner while sleeping in your bed; feel like you are sleeping together and looking at each other being romantic. Buy a marriage anniversary card and birthday card to give your ideal partner. Put the cards in an envelope and place it on your vision board. Write “marriage anniversary and birthday” on the envelope.

Remove all the objects or gifts or pictures relevant to the past relationships that make you feel negative. If you keep these things around you then it radiates negative energy and it will occupy you mentally and emotionally all the time regarding your past relationship experiences. It will keep refreshing your past memories all the time and it can create a huge blockage in your manifestation process.

You should return back to your Ex or donate or hide them in place which can't be seen by your eyesight physically on a daily basis. Whether its a laptop, furniture, books, perfumes, clothes, flowers or even a diamond ring gifted by your Ex.

Make a schedule for taking a vacation together, going to a shopping mall, going to a restaurant and going to a place of worship. Print this list, put it in an envelope and place the envelope on your vision board. Write the statement “We love taking trips and we love going out together” on the envelope.
This technique will help to attract your specific ideal person faster into your physical experience. You must live it to attract it into your physical reality.

13. Don’t be desperate about attracting your ideal partner or soulmate. 
The manifestation process takes some time. It doesn’t happen overnight. You need to be in a positive mind-set to radiate positive vibes. Don’t be desperate to attract your ideal partner, and never allow your self-doubt to occupy your mind during the manifestation process. You just need to ease yourself by being more positive and patient while practicing this law to attract your ideal partner or soulmate into your physical reality.

Being desperate is simply a sign of immaturity and a lack of awareness about the working mechanism of the law of attraction. You just need to believe in yourself and trust in the manifestation process of the universe intelligence without being judgmental. When you ease yourself, be patient and trust the manifestation process, your deserving person with similar positive vibes will come into your physical experience sooner or later. Your attitude of desperateness can invite an emotional disaster into your physical experience.

14. Understand your specific person thoroughly before accepting him/her for a committed relationship.
You might encounter your ideal specific person in person or via online social media interactions, and you just need to be focused on your relationship goals in a vivid way. When you are emotionally attracted towards a specific person and once your intuition guides you to work on your specific relationship with that specific person then understand that person to their soul level.

The best way to understand a person to their soul level is by being together in person. When you meet in person, then you can read that specific person through your intuition and emotional intelligence, besides your logical intelligence. In another case scenario, If the person you feel attracted to is far away from you and you have known each other via social media, then whoever is legally able to visit in person should do so. 

This will allow you to know each other very well. You have to know your specific person by being humble, being positive, and having love. When you invest your quality time and attention to understand your specific person, then you have to think positive about that person without being judgmental. The majority of relationships are unable to experience a honeymoon phase throughout their lifetime because they lack the right level of awareness to know their specific person wisely. 

Never make your precious decision based on their physical appearances only. Rather, you have to know the inner traits or qualities of that specific person. In fact, a relationship is a confidential matter, and you should know each other’s likes, dislikes, goals, religious beliefs, experiences, and purpose of the relationship. It will be your wise decision to spend some quality time together on a vacation trip to know each other thoroughly. 

This is the most confidential phase where you have to know that specific person personally, professionally, intellectually, and spiritually. You must feel like a deserving person during the manifestation process, which will help you to radiate more positive vibes. You have to be very honest, transparent, and confident while sharing everything with your deserving person. When you represent your authentic self, then you can understand your specific person more effectively. 

When you have a strong bond with your specific person and once you understand that specific person thoroughly, then you will be in a perfect situation to make a conscious wise decision regarding their acceptance in your relationship life. Your committed relationship can be happy and vibrant once you know each other in every way possible by being optimistic.

15. Follow your logical, emotional and intuitive intelligence during the manifestation process. 
This is the most sensitive and confidential step in the manifestation process, where you can determine your ideal partner or soulmate by utilizing your logical, emotional and intuitive intelligence wisely. The universe will allow you to encounter people who have similar positive vibes, but you need to follow your logical intelligence, emotional intelligence and intuition to make a wise decision.

When you find your desired qualities in a specific person and once you feel emotionally connected, then be focused on that specific person without engaging yourself to multiple people at once.

Your intuition is the best spiritual guide for manifesting your ideal partner or soulmate. If you find yourself emotionally and intuitively connected with that specific person, then you must practice this final action step of the manifestation process.

Action step:-
Take a piece of paper and write down the traits or qualities of that specific person you are attracted to with clarity. Once you script all the traits or qualities on a piece of paper then ask yourself few life-altering questions which can help to make a wise decision for their acceptance in your life as your life partner or soulmate.

1. How you feel emotionally and intuitively being with that person?
2. Do you think that specific person holds the core traits or qualities that you truly desire to manifest?
3. Can you imagine your committed relationship life with that specific person for the rest of your life?
4. What are the core traits in that specific person that really gravitates you and make you feel you have found your soulmate?
5. What is your compatibility level with that specific person on a scale of 1-10?

You have to answer these questions being honest and following your 3 levels of intelligence which are your logical, emotional and intuitive intelligence. You must practice this technique being in a very quiet location and enjoy every moment without any mental stress or emotional stress. Besides this, You have to practice meditation technique, nature alignment method and follow your intuition for making your final decision for accepting that specific person for a committed relationship.

I would like to humbly request you all to practice this action-oriented approach being disciplined, believing in yourself and trusting in the manifestation process of the Universe intelligence then the physical manifestation of your ideal partner or soulmate is guaranteed sooner or later.

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11/26/2019 04:57:52 am

Amazing advice, love it!
I have a question.
I suffer with social anxiety that I am currently working on professionally but because of my being anxious and bad at having conversations with people I always attract men with the same traits who are either anxious or just bad at talking so we never really get to know each other and can't really connect on a deeper level. I suppose I go after those men because we are on the same vibrational frequency... But i'm looking to leave that frequency.
Does this mean that I should start associating with people who are relaxed and good talkers if that is what I wish to become and if the man i'm looking to attract is someone who wouldn't be difficult to talk to? Like should I avoid the men I usually find myself choosing on dating sites for example even if i'm not rid of my anxiety yet or should I work longer on that first and not get to know new people at all meanwhile?

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11/27/2019 03:53:23 pm

Thank you so much for going through this article and sharing your existing internal issue. I would say please work on yourself to fix your internal issues first and follow the steps mentioned in this article. If you need further assistance then you can book your appointment. Thank you.

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