You are the responsible person to light the spark of love, happiness and compassion in your life. You can raise your self- respect, self-esteem, self-worth and self-identity through self-love in the light of grateful attitude. Most of the people are negatively conditioned about their self identity based on the opinions of others or due to the negative experiences they had in their past which forms a deep rooted negative beliefs. Sometimes the painful experience of hurt, breakup and divorce issues also compels to lose your self-identity which makes you feel unwanted or unloved.
In fact you can change your perception about yourself and master over your negative beliefs about yourself which is imprinted inside your belief system by the external forces. Whenever you live your precious life without being your authentic self then you can't experience happiness, prosperity and peace in your life for the life time. You can alter your negative beliefs by loving yourself unconditionally and accepting yourself for who you are being grateful. You can't experience harmony in your personal, professional, relationship, health and spiritual life if you feel yourself unwanted and unloved.
When you approve yourself about your self-identity then you can master over all the criticism coming from the external forces or negative people. You can be a living magnet once you start to love yourself unconditionally without being judgmental. Once you practice meditation, self loving techniques and once you enjoy your own company being with Nature then you can discover your authentic self. You can master over your negatively conditioned subconscious mind through self-love, self-acceptance, self-approval and self-appreciation in the light of some spiritual practices.
Meditation is the best spiritual practice to align with your spiritual self which is your real self. Beside this, positive affirmation, visualization and Nature alignment method also helps to discover your authentic self. When you get attached with your negative past then it can ruin your quality of life. You must let go of your negative past experiences being grateful then you can love yourself unconditionally. You must forgive yourself and others for experiencing a real inner joy and an inner peace.
Your negative self is accessed once you accept the negative opinions of others about yourself like a real. Just forgive yourself for whatever had happened in your past and appreciate yourself for everything in your life. Actually you are an emotional being in a human existence and you should respect your own feelings being very compassionate. You must detach yourself from all negative toxic people from your life and focus on your own soul purpose which can help to discover your authentic self.
When you practice gratitude about your all positive qualities and accomplishments then you can master over your negative beliefs created by the external forces. You must do what makes you happy all the time and associate with only positive quality of people who can prosper your quality of life. In fact once you follow your intuitive intelligence and trust in your own intelligence, abilities as well as your divine gifts then it can help to get back your self-identity faster. Whatever had happened in your past is like the shadow of your own shadow and you must start to live yourself by loving yourself unconditionally.
You must love yourself for who you are being at present moment rather than getting occupied by your negative past or negative opinions of others. You can program your subconscious mind once you work on your personal, professional and spiritual development by hearing life prospering positive audio books everyday as well. So never allow any person to define you rather set your own standard by loving yourself being your authentic self. Never criticize yourself, never belittle yourself and never scare yourself in the highway of your life then you can experience a huge difference in all areas of life.
Finally once you love yourself unconditionally then you can treat others alike and you can live your precious life being your authentic self. You can't love others without loving yourself first and the valid truth says "You must own it first to give it".
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Dhiraj Kumar Raj