When you love your spouse or wife from the core of your being being honest, loyal and without any self centered way then your wife can love you with same passion. You always attract what you emit and it applies to your relationship life as well. Once you treat your wife the way you desire to be treated then you can experience a destined version of your relationship life. There is always certain ways to experience a happy and vibrant relationship and here are the key elements you need to focus on for loving your wife in an effective manner.
Be your authentic-self :- When you are consciously aware about who you are and what you are then you can represent your authentic-self being in a committed relationship. You must love, respect and appreciate yourself for who you are first. You don't need to lie or live with an excuses once you discover your authentic-self. Your relationship with your partner can be more healthier, happier and vibrant if you are a person with a clear identity. She can treat you with more love and respect once you treat her being your real self.
Be loyal to her :- Be loyal to her and never cheat on her behind her back. Never be active with other women on social media or privately specially on dating sites. Don't date any other woman privately in person behind her back. If you play with her emotional feelings behind her back then it can poison your relationship life. She can forgive you for your cheating act or misbehavior once but if you cross the boundary and repeat the same act frequently then she might leave you any time.
Give her a lot of attention :- Attention is the solid foundation for building a healthy relationship. Never make her feel lonely rather be available like a real man. If you give her your attention without being a pretender or a liar then you can get an alike attention from her. Make her feel like a special person of your life then she will treat you the same being in a committed relationship. If you compel her to beg for your attention then your relationship can't be happy and vibrant.
Give her respect to earn respect :- Never belittle or judge her based on a minor arguments or any mistakes. If you respect her and appreciate her for who she is and for everything then she can rectify her committed mistakes being responsible. Never make her feel like disrespected being with your family or friends. Respecting her for who she is can motivate her to treat you the same. You can earn more respect once you give respect to her being your authentic-self.
Give her freedom :- Never force her to do the way you wanted her to do rather allow her to do what she loves to do. You can't force her to change or behave the way you wanted by compelling her. If you keep spying on her and checking her mobile phones or laptop then the situation will be more complex. If you give her freedom and have a sound communication regarding every issues you experience then it can be solved in a wise manner.
Give her a lot of affection :- Make her feel special and love her for who she is unconditionally without being judgmental. Never make her feel lonely and be available for her whenever she is missing you and expecting for your presence. If you make her feel like a precious person of your life then she will treat you the same being loyal. She will treat you, the way you treat her.
Have a sound communication :- You must communicate her about every minor or complex issues you experience in a relationship. Never judge her without communicating and understanding the issues wisely. You can fix every relationship issues with love, mutual understanding and sound communication because communication is like a solid bridge in a committed relationship. If you keep privacy in your relationship then it can harm your relationship life sooner or later. So be more communicative than keeping privacy and playing a mind game being paranoid.
Trust her:- When you trust her and believe in her then she can be more loyal, loving and honest with you. Never spy on her on every minor issues or based on opinions of others. If you experience any trust issues in your relationship then never fight for who is right rather work for what is right being together. trust issues can be solved being together in the light of love, mutual understanding and sound communication.
Don't dwell on her past:- Never dwell on her negative past experiences since you have loved and accepted her for who she is. If you keep reminding regarding her negative past experiences then it might hurt her and make her feel inferior. It will be your mature and wise decision to let go of those negative past memories. You must focus on present moment which can help to discover your happy and vibrant relationship for the life time. In fact living in present moment can light the spark of strong bond of love connection between two blessed souls who is divinely meant for each other.
Never fight for who is right rather work for what is right:- Whatever happens in your relationship life whether any conflicting issues or an argument, you have to fix it being mature and wise. Never fight for who is right rather work for what is right for your relationship life.
Note:- You need to understand the Universal truth that no one is perfect and no one can be perfect. She might be angry at you, disappoint you sometimes but it doesn't mean that she doesn't love you. So never judge her by a minor arguments or disappointments rather read the beauty of her soul. If you treat her with love, attention, affection and respect then you will be attracting the same. Beside all this, you must love, respect and accept yourself for who you are first then you can treat her the same.
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